{"id":988718,"date":"2024-12-19T18:35:13","date_gmt":"2024-12-19T15:35:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/imgazete.com.tr\/ekonomi-haberleri\/?p=988718"},"modified":"2024-12-19T18:35:13","modified_gmt":"2024-12-19T15:35:13","slug":"bir-danisanin-terapi-gunlugu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/imgazete.tr\/yalova-cinarcik\/imgazete\/bir-danisanin-terapi-gunlugu\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u0130R DANI\u015eANIN TERAP\u0130 G\u00dcNL\u00dc\u011e\u00dc"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u0130LK G\u00dcN;<\/strong><\/p>\n

Daha \u00f6nce siz ya da bir yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131z terapi ald\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131?<\/p>\n

Ben iki y\u0131l \u00f6ncesine kadar psikiyatr ile psikolog un fark\u0131n\u0131 bile bilmiyordum.
\nGer\u00e7ekten ruhsal anlamda bir hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 olanlar psikolo\u011fa gider san\u0131yordum .<\/p>\n

\"\"Bug\u00fcn hala d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum acaba \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131n terapi s\u00fcrecinde psikolog bana
\n\u2018\u2019hay\u0131r diyemeyen Anne = hay\u0131r diyemeyen \u00e7ocuk \u2018\u2019 demeseydi ben,<\/p>\n

kendi terapi s\u00fcrecimi ba\u015flat\u0131r m\u0131yd\u0131m? A\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7as\u0131 bilmiyorum.<\/p>\n

Ayn\u0131 psikolog bana \u2018\u2019siz bo\u015f zamanlar\u0131n\u0131zda annelik yap\u0131yorsunuz \u2018\u2019dedi\u011finde hissetti\u011fim ac\u0131y\u0131 ise bug\u00fcn gibi hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum, i\u015fyerinde iki toplant\u0131 aras\u0131nda k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n seans\u0131n\u0131 de\u011ferlendirmek i\u00e7in arad\u0131\u011f\u0131mda s\u00f6ylemi\u015fti.<\/p>\n

Asl\u0131nda her mesle\u011fin iyisi, k\u00f6t\u00fcs\u00fc var, t\u0131pk\u0131 benim mesle\u011fimde de oldu\u011fu gibi.<\/p>\n

Her s\u00f6z\u00fcn bir s\u00f6ylenme \u015fekli ve zaman\u0131 var. Benim i\u00e7in do\u011fru psikolo\u011fu buldu\u011fumda bunun \u00e7ok daha iyi fark\u0131na varacakt\u0131m. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131n psikolojik olarak dayan\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00f6nce benim kendi ruhsal sa\u011fl\u0131m\u0131n yerinde olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini fark etti\u011fimde, a\u00e7t\u0131m Google \u0131 ve yak\u0131n\u0131mdaki psikologlar\u0131n \u00f6zge\u00e7mi\u015flerini taramaya ba\u015flad\u0131m.
\n\u0130lk kriterim tecr\u00fcbe idi, m\u00fcmk\u00fcn ise ya\u015f\u0131 benden b\u00fcy\u00fck olsundu ve anne olursa da harika olurdu.
\nPsikolo\u011fumun anne olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmiyordum ama di\u011fer kriterleri tutuyordu. Sonradan anne oldu\u011funu \u00f6\u011frenecektim.
\n\u0130lk seans\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fcn gibi hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum. Kendime de\u011fer vermeyi sadece kaliteli \u00fcst ba\u015f giymekten ibaret sanan o zamanki ben, ilgin\u00e7tir ki seanstan \u00f6nce su ge\u00e7irmez bir kaban alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m ve hemen giymi\u015ftim.
\nBir elimde eski kaban\u0131m\u0131n oldu\u011fu po\u015fet di\u011fer elimde karton bardakta kahvem ya\u011fmurlu havada dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k merkezine do\u011fru y\u00fcr\u00fcmeye ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m ki, o civarda s\u0131k s\u0131k kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m gen\u00e7ten bir dilenci beni g\u00f6r\u00fcnce yolumu kesti. O g\u00fcn her zamankinden daha fazla para verdim arkamdaki kad\u0131n \u2018\u2019al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmay\u0131n bunlar\u0131 b\u00f6yle \u2018\u2019 deyip yan\u0131mdan h\u0131zl\u0131 h\u0131zl\u0131 y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fcp ge\u00e7mi\u015fti.
\n\u2018\u2019 Para benim de\u011fil mi istedi\u011fime veririm \u2018\u2019 demek i\u00e7imden bir an ge\u00e7mi\u015f, ama ben diyememi\u015ftim\u2026
\nO genci g\u00f6remiyorum uzun zamand\u0131r, umar\u0131m kendini kurtarm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r bir \u015fekilde, birileri elinden tutmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n

Dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k merkezine erken varm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m kap\u0131da \u00e7ok g\u00fcler y\u00fczl\u00fc bir bayan kar\u015f\u0131lad\u0131 beni.
\nSalona ge\u00e7tim bir kad\u0131n kula\u011f\u0131nda kulakl\u0131k g\u00f6zlerini kapatm\u0131\u015f \u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc koltukta oturuyordu, giyiminden yap\u0131l\u0131 sa\u00e7lar\u0131ndan onun da i\u015f \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131 geldi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm. Kirli sar\u0131 renkteki berjere oturdum olduk\u00e7a rahatt\u0131.<\/p>\n

Kahvemi yudumlay\u0131p salonu incelemeye ba\u015flad\u0131m. Salonda bir mavi bir sar\u0131 berjer kiremit rengi \u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve mavi renkte ikili koltuk vard\u0131 . Duvardaki b\u00fcy\u00fck resimde Einstein gibi \u00fcnl\u00fc bilim adamlar\u0131, Muhammed Ali gibi sporcular vb. oldu\u011funu resme bir g\u00fcn yak\u0131ndan bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda anlayacakt\u0131m, d\u00fcnyay\u0131 etkileyen y\u00fcz insan gibi bir \u015feydi o tablo. Bu odada dakikalarca kitap okuyup sessizce oturabilirdim, o kadar rahatlat\u0131c\u0131 gelmi\u015fti ki oda sonraki haftalarda 10-15 dk erken gelip seans \u00f6ncesi kendimi dinleyecektim.<\/p>\n

Psikolo\u011fum geldi, el s\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131k ve seans odas\u0131na ge\u00e7tik. Kendisini k\u0131saca tan\u0131tt\u0131. Ger\u00e7ekten de \u00e7ok tecr\u00fcbeliydi.
\nBen m\u00fchendis oldu\u011fumdan, iyi bir \u015firkette y\u00f6netici olarak \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131mdan, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m i\u00e7in ba\u015flayan terapi s\u00fcrecinden ve terapiye ba\u015flamaya karar veri\u015fimden , daha \u00f6nce birka\u00e7 y\u0131ldan fazla enerji konular\u0131 ile u\u011fra\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131mdan, pek \u00e7ok ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim kitab\u0131 okudu\u011fumdan, bo\u015fanma ile sonu\u00e7lanan bir evlilik ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131mdan bahsettim. Notlar ald\u0131, beni dinledi. Fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131n y\u00fcksek oldu\u011funu benim gibi dan\u0131\u015fanlara profesyonel dan\u0131\u015fan dendi\u011fini s\u00f6yledi, onore olmu\u015ftum, \u2018\u2019B\u00f6yle g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcme bakmay\u0131n her insan\u0131n karanl\u0131k bir taraf\u0131 var benim de var\u2018\u2019 demi\u015ftim.<\/p>\n

Evlili\u011fimin ka\u00e7 y\u0131l s\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc sordu, annemin \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnden alt\u0131 ay sonra tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ve hemen evlendi\u011fimizi anlatt\u0131m. Yas zaman\u0131 yap\u0131lan se\u00e7imlerin \u00e7okta sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 sonu\u00e7lar do\u011furmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bana yap\u0131lan ara\u015ft\u0131rmalardan \u00f6rnekler vererek a\u00e7\u0131klad\u0131. Hi\u00e7 bilmiyordum\u2026<\/p>\n

Sordum:\u2019\u2019 \u0130lk defa terapi al\u0131yorum ve etraf\u0131mda terapiye gitmi\u015f kimse yok s\u00fcre\u00e7 nas\u0131l ilerleyecek? \u2018\u2019<\/p>\n

Psikolog: \u2018\u2019Bir puzzle’\u0131n par\u00e7alar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn, da\u011f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olan t\u00fcm par\u00e7alar\u0131 do\u011fru yerlerine yerle\u015ftireceksiniz, bende yolunuza \u0131\u015f\u0131k olaca\u011f\u0131m, y\u00fcr\u00fcyecek olan sizsiniz \u2019\u2019 dedi.
\nBen: \u2018\u2019 Peki ge\u00e7mi\u015fi mi konu\u015faca\u011f\u0131z, bug\u00fcn\u00fc m\u00fc yoksa gelece\u011fimi \u2018\u2019
\n\u2018\u2019Bug\u00fcn\u00fc konu\u015faca\u011f\u0131z\u2019\u2019 dedi.
\n\u0130lk Seans bitti\u011finde eve do\u011fru ya\u011fmurun alt\u0131nda yava\u015f yava\u015f y\u00fcr\u00fcrken daha \u00f6nce hi\u00e7 hissetmedi\u011fim duygular i\u00e7indeydim.
\nPsikolo\u011fumdan iyi bir elektrik alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m oras\u0131 kesindi, haftaya yine ayn\u0131 g\u00fcn ayn\u0131 saatte randevula\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131k, gelecektim.
\nDaha \u00e7ok merak vard\u0131 sanki i\u00e7imde, nas\u0131l ilerliyor terapi s\u00fcreci anlama iste\u011fi duymu\u015ftum.
\nAsl\u0131nda ne kadar \u00f6nemli bir g\u00fcnd\u00fc ilk g\u00fcn, \u2018\u2019Kendim\u2019\u2019 e yolculu\u011fumun ilk g\u00fcn\u00fc oldu\u011funu \u00e7ok sonralar\u0131 anlayacakt\u0131m.<\/p>\n

Ay\u015feg\u00fcl SUNGUR<\/strong>
\nTextil M\u00fchendisi\/Dan\u0131\u015fan, Anne.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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\u0130LK G\u00dcN; Daha \u00f6nce siz ya da bir yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131z terapi ald\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131? Ben iki y\u0131l \u00f6ncesine kadar psikiyatr ile psikolog un fark\u0131n\u0131 bile bilmiyordum. Ger\u00e7ekten ruhsal anlamda bir hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 olanlar psikolo\u011fa gider san\u0131yordum . Bug\u00fcn hala d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum acaba \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131n terapi s\u00fcrecinde psikolog bana \u2018\u2019hay\u0131r diyemeyen Anne = hay\u0131r diyemeyen \u00e7ocuk \u2018\u2019 demeseydi ben, kendi terapi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":989275,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[4374,4375],"class_list":["post-988718","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-imgazete","tag-daha-once-siz-ya-da-bir-yakininiz","tag-terapi-aldiniz-mi"],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/imgazete.tr\/yalova-cinarcik\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/988718","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/imgazete.tr\/yalova-cinarcik\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/imgazete.tr\/yalova-cinarcik\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/imgazete.tr\/yalova-cinarcik\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/imgazete.tr\/yalova-cinarcik\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=988718"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/imgazete.tr\/yalova-cinarcik\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/988718\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/imgazete.tr\/yalova-cinarcik\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/989275"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/imgazete.tr\/yalova-cinarcik\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=988718"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/imgazete.tr\/yalova-cinarcik\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=988718"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/imgazete.tr\/yalova-cinarcik\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=988718"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}